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Bronwyn Pike
Bronwyn didn't pike it


The numbers may have been down – only about 300 turned out for this year’s Melbourne Equal Love Rally, well down on previous years – but two facts made it a memorable occasion.

The first was the large number of young people taking part. We frequently hear complaints that marriage is a side issue and a waste of time, and anyway the younger generation don’t want it.


But for the first time the rally was composed mainly of young people – the older generation stayed indoors, no doubt put off by the gloomy weather.

I spoke to quite a few people who have been in previous years, and they gave various reasons for not attending – not interested in marrying, no point now the Rudd government is already moving on equality, ‘Oh, that’s today, is at?”, and, “I’m off to church.” Well, it was a Sunday.

So I asked a few of the people at the rally – which seemed to be well supplied with people who called me ‘comrade’ – why they were there.

Some, predictably, want to get married. The comrades, equally predictably, said they were not in favour of participating in an oppressive anachronistic hetero-normative institution themselves, but equality demands all should have access to it if they want it (and much more in the same vein). Remembering my student days, it’s a fair bet the latter will be the one’s who end up selling life assurance and/or herbal slimming products to pay for their McMansion in the suburbs.


Now in it’s fourth year, the event has lost the passionate anger generated not so much by John Howards commando raid on the marriage act as by Labors betrayal in support of it.

And the sea of red balloons on Parliament steps which represented its high-water mark has now been replaced by a drably dressed group of the incurably activist.

In fact, the whole (much shortened) event has become as ritualistic as the ceremony to which it seeks to gain access.

So the second remarkable fact didn’t initially register when State Education Minister Bronwyn Pike’s voice drifted across the crowd, announcing, "I support same-sex marriage, I have for many, many years. I believe that a civilised society is a society that is inclusive and is a society that affords the same human rights, the same access to justice, the same equality under the law for every single one of its citizens.”

It was Bronwyn Pike who engineered the pledge with which Labor went to the last election, to donate $250k to GLBTI radio station Joy 94.9 to fund its re-equipment and the recent move to proper premises. The mothers of gay sons tend to understand these things.

To hear a senior Labor politician break ranks with the hitherto rock-solid party line and endorse gay marriage leads one to hope some of her federal colleagues may be emboldened to follow suit.

After all, polls show around 57% of Australians support gay marriage, a higher percentage than in many other countries at the time they introduced gay marriage.

Activist John Klopprogge said, "We know that a huge number of Labor parliamentarians, state and federal, support marriage equality. It will only be matter of time before more come out for equality.”
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"Most evil" HIV spreader convicted (LINK)

August 1st 2008 00:51
Michael Neal - The Age
Michael Neal - The Age
The Michael Neal saga is drawing to a close with the conviction of the Melbourne grandfather for deliberately infecting others with HIV.

There’s no denying this case revealed some dark aspects of a section of the gay community. One man registering himself as a dog with the local council as proof of his love for another. Neal setting out to infect another man with HIV – without telling him – saying it’s better to get it from someone you love than from a stranger.

Sadly, some people, eager to demonise us, will jump on this as evidence that we’re all like that – which is nonsense. But there is no doubt that some gay men – often in late to middle age – have been so mangled by what they have been through at the hands of the world that they are, quite frankly, permanently damaged.

How else to explain the fascination with the dark side that so many of them evince, and which newer generations show fewer signs of taking up?

As you look down the age range you find that the current generation of young gay men – 16-20ish – while unafraid to experiment sexually, are altogether the most balanced, the sunniest generation I can remember. How well they age will of course depend on how loving and accepting society becomes, and how well it treats them. That sunny disposition could so easily be brutally extinguished.

But for now, and for the most part – and I’m talking mainly about those in the big cities – they seem remarkably well-balanced.

Even their country cousins, while still doing it much tougher, fare better as more regional groups and more internet resources become available, easing the awful pressure of thinking “I’m the only one.”

Almost forty years ago when I took my first tentative steps to accepting myself as a gay man, we had only just been decriminalized. Everyone seemed very tense all the time, only able to relax with the help of alcohol and, as time went on, more sinister drugs. Many gay men of my generation never had sex sober.

We have made great strides since then. Cases like Michael Neals remind us how far – and of the consequences of society’s repression and denial of homosexuality.

As we move into the era of acceptance, when it is ceasing to be remarkable, or even interesting, for two men to marry and dedicate their lives to each other, we can hope that there will be fewer and fewer Michael Neals in future.
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